Twin Flames

I had a very interesting experience in a past relationship that  was both magical and painful all wrapped in one. It was something I couldn't quite wrap my mind around due to the events that took place both physically, mentally as well as emotionally.  It was so peculiar to me that it prompted me to do some digging and as I did my research I came across the term twin flame. At the time I was in denial about what was actually going on in the relationship and I couldn't understand what all I was experiencing but the more I read up on twin flame, the more I began to understand. I still had so many questions I wanted answers to. 
What is a twin flame?  Can twin flames be the same sex? Is it possible to have more than one twin flame? and what are the signs that you have come across a twin flame connection? Well, let's get right into it. 
A twin flame is a mirror soul. They are two different people who were split into different bodies but share the same soul. They are considered a person that you feel connected to not just on a physical and emotional level, but also a soulful or spiritual level.  They are the yin to our yangs, the sun to our moons, and the light to our darkness. Twin Flames are suppose to reflect back to us our fears and shadows, and also our inner beauty and strength. The relationship is also known as karmic, however it is said that they're someone who comes into your life to help you create something good as well as to achieve something on an energetic level that helps expand the consciousness of the planet. Twin flames are a divine expression of balance, harmony, and unconditional love. According to goalcast.com The real purpose of a twin flame is not about great sex, emotional highs and an epic love story  -  It's to wake you up, shake you up and call you higher. It is a gift presented by the divine.   
Can Twin Flames Be The Same Sex?
According to consciousreminder.com Twin Flames are a single soul before they were split and given individual distinctions. There is a broad idea that a twin flame bond can only be present between a woman and a man. Souls are genderless before incarnating into a physical form.  They were free spirits in the spiritual realm with no gender discrimination binding them. A person's gender has no connection with energy, they are different, A male can have feminine energy just as much as a female can have a male energy. True identity lies in the soul and not the physical form. 

 Is it possible to have more than one twin flame? 

While some sources say that it is possible to have more than one twin flames, there are others who beg to differ. For those who believe in multiple twin flames they refer to it as a triple flame set.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic Personality Disorders is a mental condition in which some people have an inflated sense of their own self importance, as well as a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships and lack of empathy for others. Deep inside the narcissist deals with extreme confidence issues, low self esteem and is vulnerable to criticism. 

The Personality disorder causes major issues in many parts of the narcissist life , such as relationships, work, school and even financial affairs. People who suffer from NPD may be unhappy and disappointed when they are not given special favors or the admiration they believe they deserve.  Treatment for the personality disorder is centered around therapy (psychotherapy). 

Symptoms 

Have an exaggerated sense of self importance. 

Have a sense of entitlement and requires constant excessive admiration

Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it

Exaggerate achievements and talents

Be envious of others and believe others envy them

Narcissist have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism 

Become Impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment

Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted 

Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior

It is not known what causes NPD 

However NPD may be linked to 

Environment- Mismatch in parent child relationships with excessive adoration attuned to the Childs experience.

Genetics- Inherited characteristics 

Neurobiology- The connection between the brain and behavior and thinking

Risk Factors

NPD Affects more males than females, and it often begins in the teens or early adulthood.

Keep in mind that, although some some children may show traits of narcissism, it may simply be typical of their age and doesn't mean they'll go on to develop narcissistic personality disorder. The cause of NPD isn't known, some researchers think that in biologically vulnerable children, parenting styles that are overprotective or neglectful may have an impact. 

PREVENTION

There is no way to prevent their condition.

Get treatment as soon as possible

Participate in family therapy to learn unhealthy ways to communicate or to cope with conflicts or emotional distress 

Attend parenting classes and seek guidance from therapist or social workers if needed. 

     

Soul Ties

WHAT ARE SOUL TIES AND WHY DO YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE BEING  INTIMATE WITH 

The ideas that certain actions can connect you to a person and cause you to bond in a way that is not easily broken. Typically soul ties are said to come from sex.  Like a linkage in the soul realm between  two people both beneficial results or negative results. 

Positive Effects Of A Soul Tie

- Marriage. God links the two together & the Bible tells us they become one flesh. It binds them together and they become onto one another in a unique way. 

- The purpose is to build a very healthy strong relationship between a man or a woman

-They can also be in a very strong relationship

-The negative effect of a soul 

Soul ties can be used to the devils advantage. Soul ties can be also be from outside of marriage causing a person to be defiled.

-How to be break Soul ties

Repent the relationship

Sex is a tridimensional experience: Spirit, soul, and body when a person is sexually involved with another person, neurichemical changes occur in both their brains that encourage limbic, emotional bonding.

Limic Bonding

Sex is enhancing an emotional bond between them whether they want it or not. 

A limbic bonding is the reason casual sex doesn't really work for most people. Usually women catch feelings 

One person is bond to form attachment.

One person is usually the woman who is hurt most is that the female limbic system is larger than the male's. 

Unhealthy soul ties are often ramifications of having partners that you create a life long bond with through sexual encounters, but whom you only have a short relationship with. The bond remains long after the relationship is over, leaving other sexual partners longing for wholeness.

Sexual Energy

A powerful force, that when used consciously, can be a great catalyst for spiritual growth and healing on many levels. 

Domestic Violence

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 

Domestic Violence also know as intimate partner violence (ipv) is a pattern of behaviors used by one partner to maintain power and control over another person in an intimate relationship.

Domestic Violence includes behaviors that physically harm, arouse fear, prevent a partner from being or doing what they wish to force them to behave in ways they do not want. It includes the use of physical and sexual violence, thats and intimidation, emotional abuse and economic deprivation. Many of these different forms of domestic violence/ abuse can be occurring at any one time within the same intimate relationship.

SIGNS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Using Coercion- Making her afraid by using looks, actions, gestures, smashing things, destroying property, abusing pets, displaying weapons

Using Isolation- Controlling what she does, who she sees and talks to, what she reads, where she goes, limiting her outside involvement  , Using jealousy to justify actions

Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming- Making light of the abuse and not taking her concerns about it seriously. Saying the abuse didn't happen. Shifting responsibility 

Using Children- Making her feel guilty about the children. Using the children to relay messages. Using visitation to harass her, threatening to take the children away

Using Male Privilege- Treating her like a servant. Making all the big decisions. Acting like the "Master of the castle." Being the one to define men and women roles.

Using economic Abuse- Preventing her from getting or keeping a job. Making her ask for money. Giving her allowance, taking her money, not letting her know about or access to family income. 

TYPES OF ABUSE 

Spiritual Abuse - Preventing a woman from practicing her religion

Misusing spiritual or religious beliefs and practices 

Forcing a woman to act against her spirituality or religious  obligations

Verbal Abuse- A key feature of emotionally abusive relationships.

The perpetrator makes statements that negatively label a person, for example "you are a terrible mother" 

Signs of Verbal abuse- Name calling, continuous criticism, swearing and humiliation in public or private, attacks on a woman's intelligence, body or parenting, yelling. 

Sexual Abuse- Any forced or unwanted sexual activity. The perpetrator of sexual abuse may use physical force, make threats or take advantage of a person unable to give consent.

Sexual abuse mainly happens between two people who know each other and can occur in context of domestic violence.

Sexual Abuse has impacts on woman's physical and emotional health. It can lead to long term mental health issues, including anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder. 

Mental Health

Mental Illness - Refers to a wide range of mental health conditions, disorders that affect your mood, thinking, and behavior. Examples of mental illness include depression, anxiety, schizophrenia,  eating disorders, and addictive behaviors. Many people have mental health concerns from time to time.

MENTAL ILLNESS EXAMPLES

• OCD 
• ADHD 
• BIPOLAR
• DEPRESSION
• ADDICTIVE BEHAVIOR

 SYMPTOMS 

• FEELING SAD OR DOWN
• CONFUSED THINKING OR REDUCED ABILITY TO CONCENTRATE 
• EXCESSIVE FEARS OR WOMES, OR EXTREME FEELINGS OF GUILT
• EXTREME MOOD CHANGES OF HIGH AND LOWS 

Back Seat Action Published by Love Infinite

I inhaled the fragrance of her hair as I wrapped my arms around her neck inviting her into my space. She was sensual and gentle as she kissed my lips allowing the flavor from her flesh to marinate on mine. I lived for it. The passion was incredible. Each touch was magical, each moment was priceless. I escaped reality and landed on a euphoria of sensual seduction. She caressed my breast with her left hand and grabbed my ass with the right, while kissing on my neck all at the same time. Heaven was in my back seat and  the angels danced over me as I indulged in the bliss before me. Her fingers were like butter fingers, sweet and just the right size. I wanted her to penetrate the peach between my inner thighs. It was like a scene out of a movie.  I felt myself slowly submit to the pleasure when I suddenly stopped myself and pulled back. "I can't do this" I said to her as she began to suck on my nipples. "Why, what's wrong? You don't like the way I touch you?"  She said to me in a soft seductive tone. "It's not that" I said holding back sounds of pleasure, "it's just that I think we should wait. I'm not ready to let you inside of her yet." "Are you sure?" She said as she looked up at me running her tongue across my nipple." I let out a loud moan exposing how good she was making me feel. "You seem to be enjoying me quite a bit." She said, she then whispered to me..just let me kiss it." "My legs got weaker. Just the thought of her touching it excited me. "Mmm, I can't. Maybe some other time." I told her. She looked at me and laughed. "Okay, I respect that. I'm patient. I can wait. Just know that when I get it, its mine." She looked me deep in to my eyes, I could see the passion burn inside of her. It was contagious. It ignited a flame in me. I didn't know what it was I was feeling but I felt something. It was dangerous.

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   Infinite's Guilty Pleasure is a story about an androgynous lesbian  who's addicted to the act of sexual intimacy with woman she craves.  She gets high off their energy by leading them on, seducing them, using them and being done with them just to indulge in the next woman. She meets someone who has had their eyes set on her for years and finds herself captivated by the woman's energy. She gets to know the woman just to find out she's not who she appeared to be. Things then take a turn toward the wild side quickly becoming dangerous...can she escape this web of passion and insanity? or will she get caught up in the energy? Who is she?  
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